Bereavement help and support

Bereavement is a personal experience and can affect people in different ways.

This guide is also available in Welsh (Cymraeg).

You can find information about understanding and managing grief from the following organisations:

  • for ways to manage grief
  • 聽 for support if you are newly bereaved

You can find someone to speak to about bereavement from the following organisations:

  • for ongoing support over the phone
  • includes an online community to talk to others who are grieving, a video chat counselling service and personalised grief support by text message
  • for free live chat with a bereavement counsellor

and things you might need to do, depending on the circumstances.

Children and young people

If you鈥檙e a bereaved child or young person, or a child you know has suffered a bereavement, you can get help from the following organisations:

Part of What to do when someone dies: step by step

  1. Step 1 Register the death

    1. Register the death

    Check what to do if:

  2. Step 2 Tell government about the death

    The Tell Us Once service allows you to inform all the relevant government departments when someone dies.

    1. Use the Tell Us Once service to tell government
    2. If you cannot use Tell Us Once, tell government yourself

    You'll also need to tell organisations outside government, like employers and private pension providers, banks, and utility companies.

  3. Step 3 Arrange the funeral

    1. Arrange the funeral
    2. Get help paying for a funeral
    3. Get help paying for a child's funeral

  4. Step 4 Check if you can get bereavement benefits

    You might be eligible for financial help.

    Check if you can get:

  5. and Deal with your own benefits, pension and taxes

    Your tax, benefit claims and pension might change depending on your relationship with the person who died.

    1. Manage your tax, pensions and benefits if your partner has died
    2. Check how benefits are affected if a child dies

  6. and Find bereavement support and services

    Get help with managing grief and the things you need to do when someone dies.

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    2. Find bereavement services from your local council

  7. and Check if you need to apply to stay in the UK

    If your right to live in the UK depends on your relationship with someone who died you might need to apply for a new visa.

    Check the rules if:

    1. Contact UKVI to check the rules for other visas

  8. Step 5 Value the estate and check if you need to pay Inheritance Tax

    To find out if there鈥檚 Inheritance Tax to pay, you need to estimate the value of the property, money and possessions (the 鈥榚state鈥�) of the person who died.

    1. Estimate the value of the estate to find out if you need to pay Inheritance Tax
    1. Find out how to report the value of the estate
    1. Pay Inheritance Tax if it鈥檚 due

  9. Step 6 Apply for probate

    You might need to apply for probate before you can deal with the property, money and possessions (the 鈥榚state鈥�) of the person who died.

    1. Check if you need to apply for probate
    1. Apply for probate

  10. Step 7 Deal with the estate

    Pay any debts or taxes owed by the person who's died. You can then distribute the estate as set out in the will or the law.

    1. Deal with the estate
    1. Update property records